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on the best sexual positions for guys with a small penis
Question: For guys 5 inches in penis length and under, is missionary pretty much the only choice for sexual positions? I'm looking either for confirmation that I'm not the only one who finds this...or ways to change if I am. I'm about 5 inches long and 4.5 round. My wife and I find that the variations on missionary position are pretty much OK (me on top, her on top, face forward, face back, etc) but all the positions entering from behind are not (doggie, spooning, etc) - because of my penis length I can't get very much in, and the strokes are just too short. It's very frustrating, and really hard not to see this inability as a "masculinity failure," like I came to work with my tool box half empty, that sort of thing. Do others feel the same way, that we're limited to just half the options? p.s. I'm leaving all the frustrations with penis girth out of this question and focusing on length... God knows girth is a whole other frustration... Answer 1: I think, perhaps, that you're allowing the thought of lack of penis size, etc, get in the way of pleasure and you should go for it again, forgetting about length, and just fuck for pleasure. You may need to re-arrange the positions you try and get her to open her legs up a bit more, and then do what you can, after all, sex isn't all about penetration and should be fun. Have fun mate! Answer 2: I am just a little longer than you and the same girth. While my penis length does at times present a problem of "popping out," I have seen guys with big penis size pop out too, even in the porn. A question comes to mind about your overall body types. If you and/or your wife are overweight, the problem becomes more complicated. Yet, even with my small penis size and both being a bit overweight, we still tried all the positions back in the days when we were into trying positions. And they all worked. Answer 3: I empathize with your troubles. I too, even at 5.7 and 4.5, have issues with sexual positions. There are a few that you can only really "pull off" with a good 7+ inches penis size, so I stick to basics. I don't have a magic answer to your question other than the positions I use...I use them to their limits. And yes, at times I still feel less than "masculine" because of limitations. Even when I'm "givin' it to her good" the thought may pass though my mind that I'm not enough. But when she climaxes...they disappear. It's still a struggle with size...no, I take that back. It's not a struggle but I don't think that it's a "walk in the park". I still pop out when she's on top from time to time. And it's scary! You know what I mean....nothing worse than the thought of a broken dick. Try putting a pillow under your hips when you're on the bottom to force your penis further upwards. Answer 4: I pop out occasionally when my wife is on top and one day I almost did break my penis. She came down and I manage to ram my tip right onto her clit, resulting in two people screaming, a horrible popping sound from my member and the end of all passion for that night. The next morning I found a bruise on my glans penis that actually stayed with me for a two or three weeks. Not nice. I'm shorter than you and neither my wife nor me are what you could call petite. We still manage sex doggy style position, even though she has to lower her upper body as far down as she can. Spooning is definitely out of the question, but that's more due to our body sizes than my penis size. The answer would be either losing several stones each or me growing a 12" monster cock (neither of which sounds very likely). If you're not planning to enter any sexual Olympics and compete in the decathlon then I can't see anything wrong with that. Answer 5: I have only tried missionary and doggie and those are the only sexual positions that work for me...or shall I say, I have tried several but those 2 are the only that have worked. Like the other guys mentioned, it's not a competition...it should be pleasurable. Have you had complaints from the wife?...do both of you get off and enjoy it?...have you checked out the Kama Sutra book and see what other sexual positions work for you? Answer 6: (response from the original poster to the replies above):
Thanks, everyone. Interesting responses...not sure I understand
everything...To reply to a few comments: no, neither my wife nor
I are big-boned, heavy, etc. I'm 6 feet, 170 pounds, she's 5'4",
125 pounds. But I understand that body size may be a limitation
for many guys, in addition to the limitations of penis length.
When my wife and I have tried doggie, I can get it in, just not
very far in -- and it comes out very easily. So then, instead
of just the pleasure of the fuck, I find my focus shifts to the
problem of staying in. Kind of a downer, so we don't try doggie.
Same goes for spooning...She doesn't complain about the lack of
variety. She loves me (and my penis) very much and would NEVER
say anything, even if she thought it. And yes, we both get off
(almost every time), and we both enjoy it. It's more me, and my
desire to be able to do all these sexual positions that men are
"supposed" to be able to do, and which are said to be
so great. Doesn't everyone feel that way? Just because I've been
around the block a few thousand times doesn't mean I still don't
Answer 7: I gotta tell you I'm a big fan of the woman straddling on top, you will generally get the max penetration and she gets to do what makes her feel good too. I'm 6'2", 250 pounds and my penis is 6 inches long by six inches round but we all have our own perspective. You still have to be careful with a partner almost 1/2 your weight. I have also found that if you get her off orally, once or twice, you can go play golf, jack off or roll over and go to sleep and the woman couldn't care less. Well, it seems that way anyway! I've been fortunate to have many women and the partner on top has always met my needs, give it a go. It gives new meaning to rock and roll! Being a fairly big guy, this is, or could be a problem, it's a penetration sexual position... woman (in this case) lying flat on her back, bring her legs up over her head, making her sweet pussy the focal point of your penetration. Answer 8: I am 4.75" penis size maximum erect and my wife was a big woman and we successfully had sex with the missionary position, doggie position and woman on top position. When she was on top we did have problems occasionally if she moved too high, as I would slip out, especially as my dick had a tendency to lie flat against my belly. Missionary and doggie were not as much a problem as I was more in control. I especially enjoyed doggie style as there was the extra visual of watching my dick going in and out of her. I agree with some here that there is a little bit of experimentation required to get the best fit so to speak in some sexual positions. I feel that even if my penis had been a little shorter there would not have been any more of a problem with any of the sexual positions. Answer 9: What my husband and I do, with doggie position, is have my knees together, instead of apart. We find, doing it this way, that he doesn't pop out. In fact, he has WAY more control. And sometimes he sits back on his haunches in this position, I sit up a bit, and just bounce. Then I control everything in the doggie position! And because I Kegel, and with my legs together to keep it all tight, I can feel the head of his penis, and know when to stop the stroke. Make sense? Answer 10: Remember if you don't risk the embarrassment of your penis "popping out" you don't get to fuck! Damn you just have to do it, if you "pop out", you just "pop it" right back in and adjust your stroke and eventually you'll go "pop"! Answer 11: I "popped out" a lot the first few times I tried doggy. It took me a while to want to try it again. With a little bit of practice and patience it got easier. I guess I'm still kinda vanilla in that I prefer any variation of missionary position. The only thing that's felt nearly as good is the women on top. Any position can be altered and made better or at least more interesting. Answer 12: Hi Here is a good one: 
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