entry (doggy style) sexual positions
Rear entry is certainly a favorite sexual position for many men,
though some women feel it a bit impersonal, perhaps a bit animalistic,
and may be turned off by the sense that the position reduces them
to the status of a sex object. But it is more like the kind of
sex we would have had for most of our evolution - and its the
kind of sex most animals have today. Perhaps that is why it is
deeply satisfying for men - they were designed to thrust from
behind, to be turned on by the sight of a woman's rear, and to
enjoy the experience of ejaculating deep inside her as they thrust.
The sight of a woman's bottom, her cheeks parted to allow his
penis entry to her body, is certainly a powerful stimulus for
the man, and many men are turned on by this more than just about
anything else: as a result, they tend to come most quickly when
having sex in this position.
What of women's enjoyment? Opinion seems to be split roughly
down the middle - some love it, and some hate it, a division which
probably reflects whether or not an individual woman feels like
a sex object rather than a loved partner when she gets into this
A very good thing about this position is that it allows the man
to vary the depth and speed of thrusting as much as he likes.
He can reach around and fondle her breasts or her clitoris, which
means she may be able to reach orgasm during intercourse. She
can remain still while he thrusts or she can meet his movements
with her own backwards and forwards thrusts of her hips. It's
also possible for the man to remain still and allow his female
partner to thrust her hips back and forwards along his penis -
a unique kind of movement which is very different and exciting
for the man.
If a couple think rear entry isn't a very intimate position there
are ways to make it seem less lustful. A mirror placed strategically
in front of the couple will allow the to stare into each other's
eyes and establish a deeper connection - apart from which, the
experience of watching their lovemaking can very sexy in itself!
A lot of couples find that the man's penis will slip out when
they make love this way. Despite the pleas for advice from small
sized men (small penis sized, that is) which one sees on internet
message boards, this has nothing to do with the size of his penis!
The man needs to learn to establish a slow steady rhythm and control
the depth of his strokes so that he does not slip out as he thrusts.
And if the woman moves her hips as well, it may take a little
time for the couple to learn a comfortable rhythm. But the results
are well worth it.
The rear entry position described - basic rear entry
The woman lies on her stomach or kneels on all fours, with her
lover kneeling behind her. (A standing variation is described
below.) He can place his legs inside or outside hers, and then
he inserts his penis. This may take a little orientation until
he is used to the angle, and the woman may need to raise or lower
her hips to the right height so that he can easily get into her
vagina; once he's in, she may wish to close or tighten her legs
so as to increase the friction and grip on his penis. He can thrust
away as slowly or as quickly as he likes, and either grip her
pelvis or reach around and play with her breasts and clitoris.
Deep thrusting is particularly easy, and the man can stimulate
the inside wall of the vagina in a way he cannot in other positions.
The intensity of the experience means that a man will come quickly
and so it can be a good way to finish making love after the woman
has had her orgasm and the man is ready to enjoy his.
Variations on the basic rear entry
The man standing
A very arousing and powerful position for the man. This is certainly
in the top ten favorite positions for men.
The woman lies on the bed with the man on top of her
like all these positions, there are many small degrees of variation
that a couple can discover for themselves, and which may add a
whole new dimension to the experience. It's all about the angle
of the penis in the vagina, and, for the man, his ability to see
his partner from the rear and take pleasure in the sheer male
lustfulness of this act. A man's lustful need to have a simple,
straightforward fuck from time to time is often overlooked, for
reasons of political correctness or misplaced belief that a caring
partner never wants sex for sex's sake! It may be easier to make
love successfully in this position if the woman has a pillow under
her hips so as to raise them a bit for the man to gain easier
entry to her vagina.
Rear entry - sitting
You can do this in a chair, with the man sitting down and the
woman on top of him, facing away (or even towards, though of course
that is hardly rear entry). Or you can do it as shown in the picture
below. It's a very restful position for both man and woman, and
the female can move as quickly or as slowly as she wishes, either
thrusting her hips up and down, or in a circular pattern, or in
a gentle rocking motion. The depth and speed of lovemaking are
under her control. A nice, gentle position, especially good when
either partner is not strong or has been disabled.